Good Things Happen. Love is Real. We Will Be Ok.

Good Things Happen. Love is Real. We Will Be Ok. These three statements make up a mantra, which encapsulates my relationship with my wife. We come back to this mantra during challenging times in our relationship and individually. It’s become a tether which brings us back to earth, back to each other if one findsContinue reading “Good Things Happen. Love is Real. We Will Be Ok.”

What is “Essential?”

“Essential” is a word that I have mixed feelings about. Certainly some things are more important than others, but that is based on a set of values or criteria. When it comes to the pandemic, essential workers are people like grocers and health care workers, which is understandable. When it comes to a thought, it’sContinue reading “What is “Essential?””

Feeling the Grain

I’ll never forget that saying, “No pain, no gain.” As I hear someone saying that, I immediately think of Arnold Schwarzenneger yelling at someone lifting weights at Gold’s Gym. There’s no progress without feeling the pains of the process, moments of failure and doubt, but in the end, triumph and success. The cedar boxes wereContinue reading “Feeling the Grain”

Table Time is a Sacred Time

Two weeks ago, my fiancée and I were invited to have dinner with some friends from our young adult community. It was our second time going over at their place, the last we visited being Friendsgiving. This time, it was interesting to see their place without thirty or so young adults filling every conceivable spaceContinue reading “Table Time is a Sacred Time”